| Does your cat play too rough? Sometimes it can be difficult to
distinguish between playfulness and aggression. What the cat is
actually doing is engaging in a type of behavior, which is a combination
of both - - predatory play or "sneak attacks" are expressions
of a cat's instinctive hunting skills at work on you! While it can
be flattering to know that you have been selected as a playmate,
you are not alone if you do not particularly enjoy all the scratching
and biting.
Studies carried out by the University of Pennsylvania and the
Animal Medical Center in NYC indicate that the primary trigger
for these roughhouse antics is routinely leaving a cat alone for
extended periods of time with no opportunity for interaction and
feedback.
If you live with a cat and are away from home all day (i.e. at
work) you must make a concerted effort to redirect the play/aggression
to something other than you and then get the cat to play with
these objects when you are not present.
One of the best methods to encourage play with toys when you
are not there is to use the same object in play when you are there.
Leave your scent on the toy by rubbing it between your palms.
Tie it to a string and drag it or throw it and let the cat chase,
stalk or fetch it. Many times when a toy is pleasantly associated
with you and the good times you shared with your cat, it will
also become the focus of attention when you are not home.
Rolling or dangling (mobile) toys that can be batted about, large
stuffed catnip toys that can be wrestled with and "mauled"
are excellent substitutes. Select the toys carefully; do remember
that during rough play toys can be chewed and torn into bite-size
pieces and bells, squeakers or ornamentation can be pulled off
and swallowed.
Cats that are left alone for extended periods of time can also
become over-stimulated and excitable during petting. If petting
and stroking are met with biting and scratching, keep the sessions
short. Take note as to how long you can pat your cat before it
begins to bite and scratch. Keep the sessions shorter than that.
Many cats do not enjoy being scratched and petted on the belly
or hips, so if your cat doesn't like it, don't do it!
New cats that have been recently introduced into your household
can be quite nervous about touching the first few days or weeks.
When bringing a new cat into your home. Leave it alone! Handling
a new cat in the first few hours can be too much. If you have
to or feel the cat is ready offer a pointed finger first. If the
cat sniffs and moves in toward you, lightly pet it around the
head and shoulders only.
Short frequent petting sessions are key. Do not reach for, or
restrain, a cat that is not actively soliciting you; the gesture
can be perceived as an aggressive move. Watch the cat carefully
for signs of intolerance or over-stimulation. Stop handling before
the cat begins to bite or claw you. Stop petting at once; leave
the scene if you have to. Unacceptable behavior should never be
rewarded with positive attention.
Finally, never dangle your fingers, scuff your feet or wiggle
your toes while engaging in play with your cat. Body parts are
not toys; if you permit biting/clawing sometimes but not others,
you are giving the cat mixed messages.
Consistency and timing are everything in training. This approach
will help to minimize and ultimately correct biting and scratching
problems while allowing the cat to develop a healthy relationship
with you.
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